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Where Are
All
The Beautiful
Women?
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Where Are All The Beautiful
Women?
How to meet and date pretty and beautiful women near where you live
© David Newton
5/20/09
Take a look at what guys want these days and you’ll see that they miss the
mark in attracting beautiful women time and time again. Often the
opportunities to meet pretty women are so close they don’t even know they
are staring at them!
Simply put, guys would rather flick through a magazine of pretty women or
rather they go out to be with their mates than to seriously attend a
social function with women company.
On the other hand there are also many males who don’t go even that far,
but prefer to simply opt out of social functions unless they meet the
cover model look a likes.
So Where Are The Beautiful Women?
Here’s a tip: Women outnumber men at social functions
Women attend lots of social events and are much better at it than guys
will ever be, which means that if you being a smart male – you’ll have the
odds so much in your favour you wont know what to do with yourself.
Try This List –
Art Courses
In some places these courses are swamped with women and all the related
specialties of art have many women connected to this arena.
Massage Courses
Often the realm of health and alternate health people still holds some
ties from the past. You’ll also find those who are modern day version of
flower people involved with this area – as such these are very open minded
people. Many women join this area, so please check it out.
Local Community or TAFE Colleges
Some of these local courses are well frequented by women more than males.
The courses are part learning and part entertainment as they are so low in
cost invested.
Singles Events Of All Types
Whatever the social event type, you can be near certain that more women
have booked than guys do. You know these women who attend these events are
friendly and they do seek company of males. Its worth checking out these
events on a serious level. (See www.Panache-Singles.net )
Graduate Solo Groups
These places have very structured activities, however again they have huge
numbers of ladies attending and very little input from males seen at them.
Public Speaking Courses
My recommendation is to take a course in public speaking as you’ll gain
huge self confidence in talking with the opposite sex as a result, plus
you’ll defiantly meet wonderful women in the process.
Dinner Groups
Sadly many dinner groups i.e. such as the Table for Six type of dinners
are crying out for more males, and you’d be amazed at the incredible
beautiful women
who join these groups. Such a great selection of females you’d never be
likely to meet at other social events and so easy to talk with. (See
www.ATableforSix.com.au or
www.TheSydneyGourmetClub.com )
Social Walking Groups
Again from personal experience I’ve seen many females attend these groups
and as yet, guys seem to be oblivious to the over supply of women
attending them. All they guys need to do is show up and make themselves
friendly. (See www.SydneyWalking.com )
Like many people who run social singles activities I’m one of many who
find attracting males to events hard going – the fact is, many singles
events people hold social events which have anywhere from 20% to 80% extra
women at them – excuse me um Hello? Out there are you guys hearing this?
Even speed dating events suffer this huge over load of women booking and
guys being too shy to book such events. I’ve seen this very common with
dinner events too and house party singles events. Its common for women to
book events a week or even weeks in advance when it comes to males, they
book as late as they can and often with in the last 3 days or right on the
day of the event. That’s why they don’t get the early bird prices that
females often take advantage of because they are so pro-active.
Too Picky?
While it’s fair to say both sexes are fussy over whom they want to date,
guys can be picky on the basis of looks without really getting to know the
women they are saying no to.
On the other hand females will be more concerned with how a man acts and
talks rather than just his looks. Women are more interested in how he
communicates (or if at all).
Risking Rejection
Yes, I know that guys often feel like what’s the use, as I’ll get rejected
anyway” then they give up before they even attend an event.
Years ago I used to attend an upmarket singles house party in leafy
Hampton, Melbourne arranged by a former personal assistant lady who was
really good with people. She made wonderful dinners and held events that
even today would be well regarded by the quality of food and company kept.
She told me a story one day that made me understand what males go thru
when they attend social events. A guy well dressed, walked up to the door
and hesitated before knocking on the door to go inside. Shortly a lady
walked up the pathway and then he did knock on the door to enter. He told
the host (her name was Carol) that he nearly left as he feared being
rejected by women and didn’t wish to face a stressful night out.
Once in the door his fears left and he did meet lovely ladies and enjoyed
his night out, enough to come back another time and again.
Some Guys Invite Rejection – Let me Explain
At the same party over many months during 1990 I asked ladies what made
them fob off guys and they said it was simple things like – they dressed
badly, like they didn’t care, they only wanted to talk about sex or sports
and some even didn’t want to ask the ladies anything genuine about them as
a person. One lady said it’s no wonder they are single and unhappy.
On the other hand – here’s what the successful guys did do; they asked
real questions and listened to women and complimented them on their style.
They asked them for a dance when the music started and they were attentive
to the conversation and interests of the beautiful ladies at the meetings.
Man Drought?
To some degree there is a man drought. The figures quoted are actually
small percentages on the overall picture of the demographic landscape. Men
should be aware of this and think about what it means. However, its not
entirely the case. Males often are shyer or too picky to go to social
events. They seem to be afraid to connect with women and miss great
opportunities to meet very nice ladies. If they go to events, you can bet
that most men will make the decision to go at the very last moment
possible. By that it’s no wonder that they miss out on meeting the very
obviously over abundant supply of great women out there.
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